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Looking After Your Team: The Leadership Power of Care and Compassion


Leadership is about more than hitting targets or driving results—it’s about understanding and supporting the people who make those achievements possible. In the workplace, employees often face personal challenges that they don’t openly share, yet these struggles can deeply affect their well-being and performance. As a leader, taking the time to ensure your team is truly “okay” isn’t just compassionate—it’s a critical aspect of effective leadership.


I worked with a client, Sarah, a hospitality manager, who learned this lesson in a transformative way. Her journey highlights the profound impact of leading with empathy and care.


The Hidden Challenges of Your Team

Employees don’t leave their personal lives at the door when they come to work. They may be dealing with heavy burdens—financial stress, family challenges, health issues, or personal loss. Yet, out of fear of judgment or a desire to maintain professionalism, many keep these struggles to themselves.


For leaders, this creates a unique challenge: recognizing and addressing these unseen challenges while maintaining professional boundaries.


Sarah’s Story: Leading With Care and Connection

The Challenge

Sarah managed a team at a busy hospitality venue. Known for her high standards, she pushed her team hard to meet demanding performance goals. But over time, she noticed cracks in her team’s morale. Absenteeism increased, performance dipped, and one trusted team member, Emma, started making uncharacteristic mistakes.


When Sarah asked Emma about it, she received a polite but vague response: “I’m fine, just a little tired.” It was only after a coaching session that Sarah realized she needed to take a deeper, more empathetic approach.


The Coaching Process

During our sessions, I worked with Sarah to develop strategies for leading with care while fostering an open and supportive team environment.


  1. Creating Space for Connection We encouraged Sarah to check in with her team regularly, not just about work but about how they were feeling. She began holding brief one-on-one meetings to ask, “How are you really doing?” in a safe, judgment-free space.

  2. Recognizing the Signs Sarah learned to spot subtle signs of stress—withdrawn behavior, irritability, or declining performance—and approached team members proactively, offering support.

  3. Normalizing Vulnerability By sharing small examples of her own challenges and how she managed them, Sarah demonstrated that vulnerability wasn’t a weakness. This encouraged her team to open up about their own struggles.

  4. Providing Resources We discussed ways to connect team members with helpful resources, such as employee assistance programs (EAPs), flexible scheduling options, or professional development opportunities that could ease their stress.


Sarah’s efforts began to pay off. In one conversation, Emma shared that she was dealing with a sick parent and felt overwhelmed trying to balance work and caregiving. Sarah offered Emma flexible shifts and connected her with resources to help manage her situation. Emma’s performance improved, and she expressed deep gratitude for Sarah’s understanding.


Other team members noticed the shift in Sarah’s leadership style and began to feel more comfortable approaching her with concerns. Team morale improved, absenteeism decreased, and the team became more cohesive. Sarah realized that looking after her team’s well-being didn’t detract from their performance—it enhanced it.



Why Leaders Must Look After Their Employees

1. Employees Are People First

Behind every role is a person with emotions, challenges, and needs. When leaders recognize this, they create a workplace where people feel valued as more than just employees.

2. Well-Being Drives Performance

Stressed or overwhelmed employees can’t perform at their best. By supporting their well-being, leaders empower their teams to thrive.

3. Empathy Builds Trust

When leaders show genuine care, they foster trust. Employees who trust their leaders are more engaged, loyal, and motivated.

4. Compassion Creates Resilient Teams

Leaders who support their teams during tough times build resilience, ensuring their people can bounce back stronger.


Practical Ways to Support Your Team

  1. Check In Regularly Schedule one-on-one meetings or informal chats to ask how team members are doing, beyond work-related tasks.

  2. Be Observant Pay attention to changes in behavior or performance that might indicate someone is struggling.

  3. Normalize Asking for Help Share resources and encourage employees to seek support when needed. Let them know it’s okay to ask for help.

  4. Create Flexibility Offer solutions like adjusted schedules, remote work options, or workload redistribution to help employees manage personal challenges.

  5. Lead by Example Demonstrate empathy and vulnerability in your own actions, showing that it’s okay to acknowledge and address challenges.



Sarah’s story shows how a small shift in perspective can transform a team. By prioritizing her employees’ well-being, she not only helped them navigate personal challenges but also fostered a stronger, more engaged team. Compassionate leadership is not about solving every problem for your employees—it’s about creating an environment where they feel supported and valued.


As a leader, remember: sometimes, the most significant impact you can make isn’t through strategy or numbers but by simply asking, “Are you okay?”






 
 
 

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